Reverend Gerald Dillenbeck, MDiv MPA

2025 Congregational Study Action Issue, Unitarian Universalist Association

When democratic gratitude
performs with politically positive
caste-abolishing attitude

Then autocratic certitude
and kleptocratic magnitude
do not negatively deform
with unenlightened
and disempowering
caste-preserving platitudes.

The U.S. inter-religious sector seeks caste-abolishing strategies through deep embodied listening and multicultural learning experiences. This theological reflection intentionally includes, and gives deferential voice, to Earth’s dissociated constituents, acutely targeted, and chronically triggered, by caste-preservation harm.

These trauma-informed relationships have led many people of faith to believe our inter-continental religious associations must be transformed, not merely reformed, by dismantling systemic trauma endemic to an upper-caste dissociative “prison-industrial complex.” To this progressively polytheistic end, we actively hope for a caste-abolishing, compassionately communicating, “more perfect union.”

Those wounded by “lesser-than” trauma histories challenge our inter-religious sector’s integrity. We invite democratizing intention to transform caste-preserving trauma with caste-liberating compassionate communication strategies; words and ways to restore universal Earth Justice, and unitarian anthropocentric peace.

What is our theology of sin and redemption? Of repentance and repair?

Original sin, like a crack bifurcating the Taoist symbol of sacred synergy, severs Gaia’s Original Yang/Yin Relationship, engaging a theology of therapeutic co-redemption. Wounded womb pain and loss, loneliness and dissociation, dissonance and chaos, present negative feelings of dispassion. So too, pleasure and gain, belonging and association, resonance and complexity present positive feelings. Together, these dark negatives and light positives potentially reincarnate healthy ecological and neurological compassion, reconnection, revival, re-ligion, re-associative healing.

Throughout indigenous wisdom Origin Stories, original sin is iconically represented by disempowering risks of a traumatically severing crack, and enlightened opportunity in co-redemptive Prime CoBinary Relationship. Light and dark, full and empty, top and bottom, as iconized in the Taoist bihemispheric black/white symbol. Both of these, survival risk and thrival opportunity, held paradoxically together within a cosmic GaiaMother’s nurturing, and wounded, egg-womb.

With dispassioned, unpleasant risks of losing transformative rebirth comes integrity’s reverse compassioned, pleasing potential. Symbiotic Gaia reweaves, restores cosmic cobinary balance, Yang/Yin cobinary interdependence. This regenerative double-bind restores wellbeing to a bipolar anthropological v ecological crack. This primordial “crack” was indigenously perceived through experiencing SunGod’s and MotherGaia’s synergetic fertility.

These two, caste apart competition and re-caste together cooperation, present a multisensory co-arising trauma-cause/therapy-effect reiterative communication cycle. Caste together as a dipolar prime relationship, each re-associative worldview encompasses a felt awareness of risk aversion. Averting risky feelings anticipates opportunity conversion; exhaling dis-formation to inhale transformation. Caste-abolition strategies engage co-redemptive potential for PassionateMind/PleasureBody nondualistic and nonviolent integrity.

2. How does centering love ask us to respond to a public theology that is based on punishment, revenge, violence, coercion, and dehumanization?

An anthropomorphic SunFather God, creator of Man, is made in His own, monotheistic Chosen People image. By cosmological contrast, a panentheistic EarthMother Gaia, incarnating compassionate communication with SunFather, enlightens neurosystemic comparisons between transcendent YangCrown messianic orthodoxy, and indigenous YinRoot bodhisattva orthopraxis.

Reflecting on this question’s list of stressful, anxious, depressing trauma triggers, we feel these fear- and/or anger-embodied strategies to protect YangUs v YinThem with dispassion and non-communication. I feel anxious, neurologically receive ‘bad experiences that happen to at-risk Us v in-power Them,” multigenerational historic remembering. This re-membering engages strategies to avoid unhealthy, unloving, dissociative wants and dispassionate needs. Dispassionate intent, as evinced by anthropocentric history, contributes to perpetuating Winner-Us v Loser-Them systemic trauma. Transgenerational experiences of inward-neurosystemic and outward-ecosystemic trauma further disintegrate active therapeutic hope for embodied love reconnections. Mindful commitment to panentheistically inclusive compassion transforms upper v lower, lighter v darker caste dissociations. Sacred EarthTribe communion experiences restore polyculturally healthy communication and organically felt belonging.

Picture the Taoist Yang/Yin circle, with Yang on your right, caste in enlightening White, and Yin caste on your left, in empowering Black. Notice that Yang is crown-upper dominant and Yin is root-lower prominent.

A bi-polarized win v lose, monotheistic caste-preserving, Yang-Crown orthodox chakra oppositionally competes against a dipolar win/win, panentheistic caste-abolishing Yin-Root orthopraxis chakra. In reverse turn, our panentheistic awareness of safe MotherGaia belonging is appositionally unopposed to a cobinary symbiotic relationship with FatherSun, as two-dimensionally pictured above.

Robust compassion unconditionally extends warm panentheistic feelings of organically belonging together. Organic root-bodies with sacred crown-minds co-redemptively respond to caste-preserving displeasure/dispassion trauma. This systemic trauma includes past neurosystemically felt unsafe and unwoke “lesser-than” harm, scapegoating, Othering irreligious dissociation, paranoia, conspiracy theories, rabidity, PTSD, fear-anger-freeze dissonant miscommunications. From a monotheistically universal view, Anthropocene caste preservation is anti-polytheistic, anti-polycultural belonging, anti-healthy multicultural democracy, anti-holistic wellbeing. Light CrownPassion v Dark RootPleasure repeats a binary caste-segregating sin.

3. How do we live our covenant declaration that “every person is inherently worthy and has the right to flourish with dignity, love, and compassion?”

Natural law and natural order values expressed by authentically religious (reconnecting) declarations universally agree that every individual sentient organism flourishes in loving and compassionate relationships. The reverse corollary, no individual sentient organism can optimally flourish in unloving and dispassionate absence of healthy interdependent relationships.

Our most ancient indigenous wisdom, including universal-yangMind and unitarian-yinBody Taoism, supports this religiously held experience, that each individual sentient organism (person, being), lives spiritual-mind/natural-body values when we communicate, verbally and nonverbally, on the side of loving, compassionately listening, co-empathic interrelationships. All individual sentient beings and species voice and act unnatural and dispassionate disvalues when we dis-communicate on the “upper” caste-preserving side, triggering fear, anger, chronic stress, heightened anxiety, neurosystemic and ecosystemic bipolarizing rabidity.

By systemic theological extension, monotheistic HumanNature misconceptions become dissociated from polyamorous DivineSpirit “worthy” cognitive voices (co-empathic crown-passion). Instead, polytheistically dignified intuitive body choices (cobinary root-pleasure) reconcile compassionately interdependent “woke” persons.

Stepping into a panentheistic sacred ecology worldview, we might ask how we can heal “upper” mind-caste v “lower” body-caste competitive dissociation, personally and politically. This felt need for integrity invokes indigenous desire to effectively and profusely reconnect RootBody v CrownMind Original Sin problem of upper v lower, winner v loser, caste-preservation. Neuro-sensory reproductive organisms normatively experience a universal need for belonging, an appositional unitarian want to feel health safety.

We might imagine, and continuously re-imagine, a more inclusively resonant, thriving caste-abolishing covenant. We might remember our constitutional commitment to a more inclusively democratic crown/root re-association. We could regenerate YangPassion/YinPleasure, enlightening and empowering win/win inter-religious strategies. These are panentheistic nonviolent communications reviving, thriving, flourishing, dignifying an internal health-climate of love, and an environmental wealth-culture of compassionate belonging.

4. What does Universalism–the notion that we are all saved by being reconciled with a love greater than our sins–mean in the 21st century? How do we live this part of our faith heritage?

Universal Salvation is historically, and more specifically, UU associated with the crown-jewel notion that we are all saved through reconciliation with a MONOTHEISTIC love greater than our sins. Monotheism and anthropocentrism are two faces of the “man is made in God’s image,” so it logically follows that GodTalk images a divinely inspired “upper-caste” man. This transcendent salvation position is in hierarchical contrast to all othered, “lower-caste” dissociated, organic beings. In this emergent 21st century of the Great Turning Anthropocene, original Chosen People sin more clearly stands us apart from our Whole GaiaEarth panentheistic roots, in Unitarian Co-Redemption.

To paraphrase Albert Einstein: “We cannot solve our [upper-caste preservation] problems with the same thinking we used when we created [lower-caste dissociation] problems.”

Polytheistic WE might inter-religiously transform our universal monotheistic systemic trauma history by reversing upper-Monoculturing v lower-Polyculturing dissociation to win/win re-associate Poly/Mono Root/Crown nondualistic, nonviolent communication strategies. Within UU polytheistic intention, this might feel like giving more weight to our Unitarian notion that we are bodhisattva healed through appropriately sharing peak associative-felt experiences, both public and personal, both sacred and organic, both impassioned and pleasing, both enlightened and empowering. In this unprecedented critical Anthropocene climate event, we are urgently and integrally called to primordial compassionate “caste-abolishing” communication, and not anthropocentric “caste-preserving” dispassionate dis-communication.

5. What does it mean to proclaim a theology that no one–no matter what they have done or been accused of doing–is disposable [without indispensable cost]?

If malevolent roses
were blue passioned red

And malicious violets
were red pleasing blue

Then contentious autocracy
would have a whole lot less
malgovernance to do.

Peter Morales’s essay “Religious Hospitality” (UUA of Congregations, 2006) offers a theological perspective that we are challenged to practice radically inclusive hospitality. From a bodhisattva perspective, the welfare of all sentient beings is immanent and interdependent. No one can achieve the fullness of compassion, pleasure, resilient peace, until this is the therapeutic intent of everyone. The Christian gospels ask, if we only love those we do not perceive as our adversaries, without intent to practice radically democratic hospitality, then how are religious people fully engaging Gaia’s polyamorous potential for caste-abolishing integrity.

Morales describes hospitality as a spiritual discipline, verbally and nonverbally communicated with, and not against, othersa. Hospitality expresses spiritual health within those who feel empowered and perceive compassionately enlightened practice in host and guest co-empathic intelligence.

“If I feel angry, hurt, unloved, or alienated I cannot offer a[n unconditional] warm welcome. Conversely, if I am at peace, filled with joy at being alive, aware of those around me with compassion in my heart, then hospitality flows naturally and inevitably from the depths of my being.”

The challenge of resiliently and unconditionally loving those who may react against us as if we were disposable, as if our lives mattered less than their own, as if dissociative behavior and attitudes were reasonable and healthy, too often perpetuates systemic Us v Them, Winner v Loser, trauma.

Compassionate communications, unlike dispassionate dis-communications, strengthen win/win caste-abolishing messages to and from interdependent persons, associations, states and nations, and species. Reaching out with co-redemptive intention “frees us from individualism and narcissism,” and evangelical nationalism, monocultural capitalism, and the caste-preserving exceptionalism of our rabidly polarizing, dissociative Anthropocene.

6. How do we teach children about Unitarian Universalist theological claims and work with them to embody them?

From a Taoist–UU theological perspective, we all most deeply learn, especially preverbal infants and toddlers, from embodied experience. More mature spiritual/sexual bodies, also more expansively learn from compassionately communicating with other trusted and trusting sentient beings about their own upper v lower caste dissociative, and lower/upper associative experiences, including peak multisensory root-pleasures in synergetic climax experiences.

Taoist metaphysics, like all indigenous wisdom traditions, is nondualistic. The paradoxical “midway” wisdom sonnets advocate Yin/Yang Win/Win co-arising dipolarity, which stands in cooperative contrast to Yang v Yin, Win-Upper v Lose-Lower co-reactive bipolarity.

If panentheistic (spirit-transcendent/nature-immanent) wisdom distinguishes between sexual eros feelings and sensitive ethos thoughts, this may be an artifact of translating neurosensory nonverbal experiences into verbalizable constructs. In Origin Narratives, sexually safe and gender belonging feelings normatively integrate love-passion/health-pleasure at the sacrum-sacral core of root-bodhisattva integrity. This win/win interdependent web of neuro-sexual spiritual life, is in remarkable nondualistic contrast to a monotheistic-anthropocentric dissociative mortal-body v immortal-mind. The Original Sin of man v woman, like flawed human-nature v perfect divine-spirit, defends and preserves “lower” v “upper” caste carnality v sanctity.

In universal monotheistic prehistoric traditions, children were on the out-caste side of “lesser,” with women, especially unfertile women, un-sacred but sexualized capital-producing slave property, “disabled” neurodiverse people, “wild” animals, weeds, vermin, etc. Survivalist evolutionary theory forecasts a negative eumemic hierarchy over-ruling those who are “lower”-caste. Perhaps a thrivalist transformative theory reweaves a beneficent eumemic (graced, blessed, virtuous) panentheistic ruling-with GaiaEarth polyamorous culture.

Universal monotheism positively correlates with anthropocentric caste-privileged, stable, unchanging GodThesis orthodoxy. This transcendent messianic God is made in man’s exceptionally privileged image, and vice-versa. Prosperous patriarchy is virtuously made in God’s omnisciently pervasive, caste-conserving, entitled autocratic ruler, retributively jealous judge images.

Unitarian polytheism positively correlates with EarthCentered caste-abolishing, fluid GaiaHypothesis polyamorous orthopraxis. This immanent bodhisattva Goddess gives natural/spiritual birth, and rebirth, to all organically neuro-sexsensory, sacredly synergetic, inter-religious crown/root-chakra, caste-liberating, healthy democratic, restorative healing Earth Tribes.

Compassionate communication, verbally resonant and nonverbally resilient, about sexual spirituality grows polytheistically and polyculturally confluent. Passion sensitive and pleasure sensory communication integrates essential teaching and learning. Embodied spiritual connection engages humanity’s authentically religious EarthCentered unitarian life force. While talking about erotic neurosensory experience, in a safe-and-belonging trust environment, is useful for sharing and expanding individual yang/yin cobinary comprehension, we know from too much irreligiously dissociative experience, that talking the pleasure talk, without also walking the whole, holy, and holistic ecotherapeutic compassion walk, will not resiliently transform our upper v lower caste issues, personally or politically.

Those who have substantial chronic trauma histories living in the over-caste monotheistic shadow of disregard for cobinary depolarizing upper v lower-caste, passion v pleasure, power analysis may benefit from group explorations of Yang-LeftHemisphere and Yin-RightHemisphere lists.

First, explore how these concepts are often dissociated as polarizing, caste-preserving win v lose universal oppositions.

Second, discuss how these same concepts might also form a double-binding list of caste-abolishing win/win unitarian appositions.

YANG: strong form YIN: fluid integrity

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