We have probably all heard,
or at least felt,
“Life is what happens to you
while planning other things.”
“Life” has this passive quality
when compared to the pro-activity of “Love”.
When passive life is severed from active love,
health divorces wealth.
Depression expresses absence of impression
with and by and for active hope
for co-relational experience.
Trauma
is the opposite of solidarity,
as therapeutic communication restores
Where threat of uncontrollable stress risks
punishing loss
and suffering
and death,
permanent and long-term depreciated value,
depresses hope for a personal
and political
and global faith in compassion,
cooperatively invested win/win economic
and bilaterally communal empowerment
politics as ecologically ego-theo/therapeutic.
Our communication spectrum,
as autistic trauma teaches us,
is not as narrow as healthy positive communication
through negative mis-communication,
dis-formation.
Such a narrow view of potential win/win relationships
misses the vast non-verbal communication times
and spaces of entropic non-communication,
un-formation,
Wherein lies
bilateral exterior climates
and bicameral interior climates
of win/win opportunity
and lose/lose risk.
Just as we hope to love good therapeutic relationships
and not live patiently through traumatic relationships
fail to mention a universal awareness
of unitarian/sectarian default choices
where-in lie tipping points
of not not relationships,
Not yet relationships
traumatic and/or therapeutic,
pathological and/or healthy
divested and/or co-investing
in love lived wealthy health.
Maybe it is also true,
Love happens
while not over/under-planning
a win/win cooperatively faithful life.