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Growing Healthier Humanity

A significant line might be drawn
between long-term permaculture design
and agribusiness,
improved this year production
through better and more expansive chemistry,
soil and water and air and light pollution.

We might draw a parallel contrast
between inclusive Earth-nurturing politics
and elitist anthropocentrism

Between human unnatural dispirited purpose
and Earth-nature’s felt wealth
of healthy co-passionate meaning

Between divine cooperation
inducing continuous Yin-flow
belonging in joy
and human competition
deducing discontinuous Yang-strength
of longing to restore Earth Justice

Between cooperative stewardship
and anti-ecological autonomy of human nature’s
competitive capital-dominant rulership.

From a LeftBrain deductive dominant perspective
this line looks like Old School preservation,
of mutual antipathy.
Yet, from a cooperative Left-Right mindbody perspective
this same line
looks and feels
like a dipolar appositional space
for incubating heuristic co-empathic trust

For significant deep learning Both-And co-empathy,
rather than necessarily always and only Either-Or antipathy,
appositionally benign rather than always
and everywhere bipolar toxic

A nonviolently co-passionate practice
of egoMe/ecoWe
+1/-(-0) cobinary
peace-making perspective.

Just as Either-Us/Or-Them cognition
follows Win v Lose
not health-effective outcomes,
while Both-Us/And-Them follows Win+Win
bipartisan transactional resilience outcomes
for EarthGame Day and Night
compassionate Earth-wealth continuance.

So, suppose,
both UpperCaste and LowerCaste positions,
at the risk of oversimplifying a multiculturally caste situation

Republican nationalistic agri-vating business
merely an appositional uncreative distraction
from Democratic polyculture delighting designs
and multicultural power planning

For CoOperative Earth Ownership
and ReGenerative TransForming Governance,
still including some degenerative-decomposing functions,
yet without recreating a runaway waste stream
nor a runaway personal, family, community,
or national nutritional, financial, or health-assurance deficit.

That’s what’s been up-caste
and down-caste
within my bicameral Yang/Yin mind.
What’s been co-evolving with you
and your unconditional love-extending family?

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Said the Wiccan to the Wicked

Cognitive decline
follows chronic emotional neglect

Said the curious student
to teachers of dogma

Said the silenced sage
to muted musicians

Said the theologian
to exhausted bodhisattvas

Said the frustrated ecologist
to traumatized wiccan worshippers

Said the gospel sympathizer
to Old Testament victimizers

Said the scientific systems reformer
to irreligious deformers

Crown chakra abuse
follows root chakra neglect
because
Root chakra abuse
follows crown chakra neglect

Because my cognitive ethos decline
follows our chronically traumatized
eros neglect

As my disillusion
follows Earth’s disempowerment

Re-cognizing humane ethotic decline
follows chronic divine erotic neglect

Not empowering transformation
not enlightening compassion’s
authentically engaging information

Scientifically sagacious incline
following inter-religiously amusing
passions.

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Neglecting Top v Bottom Lines

I worry we co-invest in big private and public corporate assault
on Earth,
on environmentalism,
on longer-term ecologic
and ecotherapy.

Really, honey?
That’s too bad.
Why not also see long-term assault
as the unintended outcome of short-term neglect
to give cooperative win/win care,
health nurturing behavior,
Golden Rule empowering economics,
like we learned in Sunday School stewardship class?

Well, yes, I guess I can see that.
And yet, responsibility for dispassionate neglect
is not the accountability I seek
for assault on climate health

Multicultural landscapes of regenerative, rather than degenerative, potential,
slow-grown compassion fertility,
organically resilient,
full color octaves of strong-hued eloquence,
resonance for future Earth reweaving regenerators.

I wonder if it helps
to remember that assault derives from learned fear-mongering critical-event behavior,
while neglect speaks to more chronically anxious systems
of over-investment in short-term corporal and corporate ego-inflation,
rather than short-through-long-term
mental/physical
ego/eco
inside/outside
bicameral/bilateral
regenerative therapeutic balance?

Win+Win thriving regeneration
health-care targets
big ego-corporate’s Win v Lose survivalist degeneration.

I think you give sins of anthropocentrism too much evil conspiracy credit
and not enough human neglect
of long-term ecological reward anticipation credit.
When positive growth
is measured only in producing accumulation of human wealth
for investors, taxpayers and shareholders,
without any thought to quantities of resources consumed
in exchange for this production,
this feeds further disvaluing neglect
of investment in caregiving and receiving
long-term consuming and producing
cooperative win/win woke up fullness.

You are reminding me
of all the corporations I have ever known
with four-generation Mission Statements
about their corporate Original Intent,
yet, at best, four-quarter profit-making projections,
positive budgetary outcome
wish lists.

And then, too,
we have the four-generation campaign promises
derived from public corporate officials’ ReGenerative Constitutional Intent,
yet, at best, a 6-year re-election cycle,
and more likely 4-year,
or even just 2.

Yes, we do seem to have a degenerative tension
between the post-revolutionary Constitution’s Original Intent
to keep this democratizing revolution going,
for cooperating with the healthy wealth of Earth
and our nation-state neighbors,
as diplomatically and economically possible,
and within our own multiculturing liberties and justices,
peaceful compassions and pleasures
re-acclimating
anticipation of bountiful peace
into diminished restraining tolerance
of un-ecological risk denial

Traumatizing dissociations
organic life-systems could never nutritionally celebrate,
tearing families from their homes,
children from their terrorizing/terrorized parents,
young adults from their malnourished
self-medicating
Defense Business As Competitively Usual

In neighborhoods
of not so neighborly
systemic trauma environments.

Democratizing embodied Constitutions
co-arise economic health
and political wealth

A healthcare ethos
human history could not engage,
much less sustain,
without the compassionately pleasing Other

Where sacred EarthTribe co-investment
in expansive democratization,
mental/physical healthcare maturation,
mutual acclimation,
creolization of Elite with NonElite co-passion

Are drawn with loops and poignant pointing dots
of periods and episodic commas

Deriving objectives for Earth’s co-arising health
and fertile wealthy prosperity

Rich iconic compost
for producing cooperative economic climates,
health empowering landscapes
less likely to neglect ecological values
when drawing economic corporate wisdom’s
co-operative
co-gravitating
co-passioning original
top and bottom encircling
co-spiraling lines.

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Democratization Problems

I suppose you might have missed out on Paul Feyerabend’s,
and especially Thomas Kuhn’s Problem of Incommensurabiity.

Oh, not at all.
I have not looked at science or culture
or language
or even your attempts at communication
quite the same since I ran across their big dilemma.

Interestingly,
it shares some dynamics with The Prisoner’s Dilemma,
in WinWin NonZero Game Theory,
but that is a mirror mapping story
for mutual neurosystemic acclimation
on some other, even more heady, day.

Put simply,
it appears that a term used within some theoretical framework,
at earlier Point A,
take evolution, for example,
may or may not evolve some incommensurable
not entirely equivalent with, to, for, from
the same term as it appears in a subsequent
Point B post-revolutionary framework
context
systemic communication network.

For example,
is what ‘YHWH’ meant to Abraham
an equivalent theological function
to what Jesus of Nazareth meant by ‘Abba’?

And,
what Darwin meant by symbiosis
may or may not be the same as what Jane A Gordon
might mean by symbiosis…

Not symbiosis, dear,
her word is ‘creolization.’

Right of course;
relentlessly flowing
extending
growing
so, let’s see

Darwin’s use of ‘evolution’
to designate some regenerative function within a bio/ecosystem,
may or may not carry the same meaning
as Gordon’s regenerative function
of evolution within eco-politically creolizing systems.

Terms may historically evolve culturally incommensurable functions,
within interdependent contextual paradigms,
especially between PreRevolutionary
and newer PostRevolutionary
paradigmatic frames of interdependent reference

Multiculturally reforming,
cooperatively reweaving,
looking for more inclusively explanatory paradigms
extending co-empowering
bilateral WinNew/WinOld commensurable
neurosystemic communication functions.

And so, my darling,
why is this your moment of epiphany?
Why are both virtually bloodless and bloody violent cultural revolutions
necessary precursors to an incommensurable meaning problem
rather than a revolutionary point of potential integrity
in-between a before v after

A before plus after
interdependent reincarnating process,
a bilateral Both-And
Win/Win integral frame extension?

Well, because then our empirically exegetical orthodox truth statements
may look more like an ever-changing great chain of co-arising feelings
becoming a dynamic trust v distrust neurosystemic framework,
more like a revolving-recycling, perhaps even spiraling,
potentially regenerative string
of interdependently meaningful v not meaningful events.

And, this is a nightmare for you because…?

What we have faith in as paradigmatic Truth
and the American Competitive Survival of Fittest Nations Way,
starts to look more like a democratizing creolization,
extending up and down from MotherEarth’s interactive equator,
rather than God the Heavenly UnChanging Father
beaming His divine light from the WhiteHouse Sacred UpperCaste Hill
to spread freedom and healthy sunshine of true blue

I mean…true red-meat theocracy
across this monoculturing USA,
submerging the inscription on Liberty’s Statue of Original Constitutional Intent
to the Cerebrally Pacific Centering Ocean,
surf sounds,
like breathing in-caste and out-caste,
in and out…

Well, honey,
if it’s all the same to you,
I’ll try to not get my panties in a not not knot
over this Commensurable Meaning Problem,
or evolutionary linguistic Acclimation Theory
against co-arising WinTrust-New v LoseTrust-Old
incommensurable dissonance issue.

Why don’t we just assume our trusting best,
and figure Kuhn’s win v lose Incommensurability
is also Gordon’s win+win creolization of polyculturing eco-politics.
You know,
just growing the historical evolutionary paradigms
out toward wider memetic trans-generational families
of trust virtues v distrusted viciousness?

Yes, here we are, page 163
She says “If unable to fashion genuinely universal theories,
creolization can help us to engage in universalizing thought…”

I think she might have more clearly said universalizing multicultural feelings.

She’s getting there.
Just hang on.

“…creolization can help us to engage in [multiculturing] thought
or that which facilitates seeking of [truth] concepts and [trust] aspirations…”

Meaning dynamic, maybe even healthy organic, cognitions
and their co-relationally felt virtues.

If you say so, dear.
…meaningful concepts and healthy aspirations
“with what Molefi Asante (1998) has termed
greater transcultural validity.”

Well, yes, transcultural,
but especially transcultural between a pre-revolutionary frame
and a post-revolutionary,
more stretching-out inclusive,
dipolar co-arising continuously nuanced frame,
if we assume both before and after empowerment v disempowerment
of mutual democratizing win/win regard
rather than all that territorial and theoretical “Either This or That”
and “Don’t you dare Both-And me on this one”
that puts our win v lose graduate students to sleep
unwoke,
especially right after lunch.

Yes, continuous win/win democratizing progress
does seem regeneratively implied,
and possibly in the Bohmian explicate-now/implicate-then sense,
as swelling well.

She continues,
if you could please refrain from editing…

Of course, dear.
Whatever will get us on to Tillich’s Problem of Supersessionism
the superfastest.

Ok, we continue,
“Moving beyond dialogue of respectful difference,
which none of us should denigrate,
we instead explore [re]creating ways
in which otherwise [discontinuous cognitive] fragmented accounts
of shared political,
physical,
and geopolitical [communication] spaces
could and do combine.”

Yes, exactly, it’s Kuhn’s Problem of pre- and post-revolutionary incommensurability
of language truth-meanings and felt trust-functions
all over again.

Why Kayko Hesslein didn’t use ‘commensurability’
instead of ‘supersessionism’ or, even better,
win/win ‘creolization’, I don’t know

It sounds like super-secessionism, I suppose.
Anyway, with that substitution of terms,
Hesslein claim’s Tillich’s creolization theology
of messianic redemption
would, if truly fulfilled in the Christ event,
invalidate Judaism’s capacity
to continuously deliver regenerative redemption
even just among the Chosen People.

What would Jesus say, do you think?

Probably to reconsider the creolizing
springing up and falling down lilies
and well-composted
bilateral before and after
wheat fields,
or paradigmatic frames,
or systemic contexts

Or the Win/Win
Gaia Hypothesis

Yeah, sure,
commensurable functions
of new wine and old water,
or whatever.

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Type A! Cognitives Feeling Type B? Intuitives

I believe it was McLuhan who gave us
The medium is the message.
Here are a few other YinRoot and YangCrown
cobinary appositionals.

Interior mind impresses exterior body,
and survivalist-competitive messages
depress thrivalist-cooperative media.

The ecological cooperative transactor
is also the WinUpper +WinLower caste
politically democratic empowerer.

The economically competitive capital-fueled media
consume and then reproduce
the most politically compelling Upper-Caste passionate
v Lower-Caste pleasuring message.

LeftBrain dominant Either Upper Or Lower caste
evolutionary surviving reason
is also
RightBrain Both Upper And Lower caste
revolutionary thriving treason.

LeftBrain Elite cognitive messages
are also RightBrain NonElite intuitive media
of the nonverbal RightBrain Win+Win appositional frame
without verbal LeftBrain Win v Lose oppositional shame.

Loss Aversion biassed capitalist media
reproduce Caste Preservation biassed patriarchal messages.

The survivalist Either Win Or Lose risk
LeftBrain Dominant verbal
pain-focused media
overshadows
the thrivalist Both Win And Win opportunity
RightBrain Recessive nonverbal
pleasure-focused messages .

Win v Lose competitive economic risk
to Upper-Caste autocratic survival
of anthropocentric media
is also
Win + Win cooperative ecological opportunity
to Lower-Caste democratic thrival
of EarthCentered messages.

The political-anthropological reality
of YangCrown-verbalized
Win v Lose risk-aversion communication
framed as bipolar oppositional dispassion
is also
the economic-ecological relationship
of YinRoot-nonverbalized
Win+Win opportunity-optimization communication
flowing fluid dipolar appositional compassion

To paraphrase Antonio Damasio,
“The immune [risk aversion] system,
the [bilaterally autonomic emotion/behavior mediating] hypothalamus,
the ventro-medial frontal [bicameral-cobinary] cortices,
and the[anthropocentric] Bill of Rights
[and UpperCrown/LowerRoot Caste Original Democratization Constitutional Intent]
have the same [crown-message]
root cause.”

YinRoot Media CoPassionate NeuroSystems :
Cobinary win+win
+1CrownYang = -(-0)RootYin
polynomial equivalent opportunity values
of all neuro-sexsystemic
phylogenic crown/root EarthBodies,
pain-dispassion/pleasure-compassion co-mediated
democratically co-empathic intelligence

That Type A logically messaged
dispassionate risks
are also Type B ecologically co-mediated
compassionate opportunities.

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Peace-Making Game Theory

To paraphrase George Lakoff, and maybe Mihalyi Csikszentmihalyi,
and maybe Julian Jaynes,
and possibly Gregory Bateson,
and Laura Brown,
and then there was systemic
co-passionate
Game Theory

Nurturing empathy is the only doorway through
wealthy LeftBrain Deductive
and healthy RightBrain Inductive
nondual co-arising communication

Whether the context is Win v Lose debate,
Either This EgoYangElite Or That EcoYin-NotYetElite,
or Win+Win YangCrown+YinRoot dialogue,
both competition and cooperation
rely on polypathic positive
and pathological negative
eumemic co-intelligence.

Some hybrid of Win v Lose LeftBrain verbal-cognitive
and Win+Win RightBrain nonverbal-intuitive
struggling oppositionally bipolar against
and/or streaming appositionally dipolar with

Positive anticipation
does not prefer struggling oppositionally against
consumed by WinnerMe v LoserThey survival strategies,
far short of co-empathic WinMe + WinWe
thriving co-relationships.

These two,
W(-L) and W(+W),
Y(-X) and Y(+Y),
U(-C) and A(+G),
1(-0) and 0(+1)
dialectical discernment evolutions
favor co-empathically trusting resonance,
compassionate pleasure plans,
resilient cobinary designs,
re-ligiously healthy policies,
therapeutic procedures,
democratic Original Intent
bicamerally co-intelligent

Friends unconditionally extending relationships
co-empathically trusted and trusting
as kind Kin

To regenerationally thrive
in Earth’s cobinary fractals of enlightenment

Mutual empathy,
not partisan enmity
is our constitutionally protected,
eumemically healthy democracy
trusting regenerative communication

Not mistrusting degenerative dis-communication
negatively
anxiously expecting further WinnerMe v LoserThey
survivalist anthropocentric presumptions,
protecting upper-caste privilege.

Follow Gaia’s Hypothetical light,
in ecological dialects
prefers following our most empowering
economic minds
and political bodies
back toward cooperatively healthy roots
and wealth-flowering crowns.

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Listening For Firestorms

Always respect this combination of fire and wind,
Gaia tentatively whispers,
after having listened for unhealthy and yet wealthy
winding winds

Regenerating and degenerating,
investing in and divesting of,
yeasty flames of fertile
dopamine/serotonin balance.

Shaman, like you,
of future and from past castes
in which we have been raised,
co-dependent on therapeutically fueled,
fed,
nurtured communication
available up to this 1-sum space
(0)-soul time
Here/Now Win/Win.

We often find fire and wind co-dependence
fully flagrant purposed
to consume ever new nurturing communions

Moving away and toward
and ultimately through everyone
within shared physical and metaphysical landscapes

To gust and flame beyond languaged comprehension
exhaled by cool and heated winds,
inhaled feelings of trusted and mistrusted smoke,
and distrust of threatened hell
burning passion fires
and airy pleasure’s light
right flickering flames.

We,
emerging from both formed soil
and full-flowing rivers
fed by nurturing tributaries
of purest Gaian waters

Surfing seas
incubating FireGod’s radiant heat,
YangForm ebbing to integrate YinFlow back
and forth Right inhale, again Left exhale,
Up and Down recasting Grandmother Moon’s universal Fullness
and Newly pregnant
promising
unitarian Emptiness.

Indigenous wisdom
remains confident about Gaia’s ecotherapy
but today may too seldom actively listen
for Others’ gusty YangFire
and well-watered lusty YinWind
trusty Win/Win
blowing Here
flowing Now
Ecological Nutrition/Starvation Stories.

Instead,
having only watched for Win v Lose
firestorm evolving patriarchal stories

Distantly recircling back
second-hand acclimated smoke
portending advanced oil-engorged HotFlames Are Best
commercially upwind media

Anthropocentric listening
to LeftBrain’s fired up posturing
to speak away Earth’s frightening windswept fires
beneath peace-fulfilling moons.

Organic soil seeks sacred water
nutrition nurturing ecosystems

Nonsensory firestorm gains
emerging Win/Win cobinary
absence of dispassion’s pain
our mutual communing way

SpringFlow rivers of serotonin
addicted to Win/Win Left/Right
YangFire/YinWind
reweaving regenerative reiterative
positive
inductive
seductive oceans of communal emotion

And potential Win v Lose firestorm dis-communication
restraining cognitive winding thoughts
flaring against intuitively aired feelings

Recomposing Gaia’s Win/Win
Here fired Now winding
God’s anxious dopamine communication
remains Gaia’s well watered serotonin communion,
Fire’s wellness-warmed
Passion/Pleasure Story.

YangFire/YinWind
forming/flowing
Here/Now
Space/Time
Body/Mind
cobinary Win/Win Gaming Frames

Serotonin positive polyvagal reunion
for external/internal
eco/ego-therapeutic firestorms
cobinary forming/flowing
indigenously climatic
resiliently brilliant communion

Win-Fire v Lose-Air competing strategies
draw dopamine downdrafts
of EliteHot v NonEliteCold predative desires
for more Win/Win balanced dopamine healing thoughts
and warm-nurtured serotonin safety feelings
through cooperative depolarizing
appositionally-resonant
EgoFire/EcoWind re-association

Rather than competitive bipolar
oppositionally-dissonant
dopamine anxiety anticipation.

Across all our natural-fire/spiritual-air neurosensors,
all resonant crown/root chakra
polyvagal peaceful serotonin states

Forming health flowing wealthy good
that is our nature optimizing, yet still spirit maturing
and cobinary expanding,
redefinition of Win/Win Anthro/Earth Commons

Crown/Root
dopamine/serotonin neuro-sexsensory
testosterone/estrogen
reforming-passion/reflowing-pleasure
Anthropocene resilient
permacultural health/wealth climax
anticipating

Common animistic respect
for this integrity of deductive Fire
and inductive Wind,
still indigenously held together
healthier than failing apart

Disrespecting our combination
of godly Fire and gaian Wind.

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Women’s Wisdom Marching Councils

I know you invited the Brothers to side-line along,
but only if we are here to listen;
Don’t speak.

Yet I may have credential for qualifying voice.
For I, like some of you,
know what it means to develop cooperative,
too often dissonantly competing,
multicultural enriching relationships
with brown husbands
and Black as God lovers.

Sons and daughters of enslaved Elders,
with responsibility to nurture our mixed-race Othered children,
some with mental and physically challenged mindbodies,
replete with Left and RightBrain dominant/suppressed confusions,
disabling appositional,
disorienting,
dissonant caste-preserving marginalizations
and addictive appetites

Yet sharing, even while denying,
Earth’s health and painless safety
eco-political rights

To therapeutic touch and sound
of bilaterally balancing bigenderal,
matriarchal with patriarchal
liberating Left thought
conserving Right systemic feelings,
curious,
hungry and thirsting
for Wise CoBinary Council Commons,
cooperative both-anding
our Win/Win wu-wei regenerative march
with freedoms to and from

Where I stand
and march in breath-rhymed pace,
we together hear our own silent
resonant marching pace
with Brother Martin Luther King, Jr,
Doctor of revolutionary journeys with his Elders

Brother Mahatma Gandhi
walking East/West
caste demolishing Left
with recaste admonishing Right W.E.B Dubois,
Doctor of enslaved co-redemption health
and salvation safety,
an evolutionary polyculturing story

Personal,
familial,
national extended marching family,
EarthTribe’s sacred ecology extending
back to complex fractal structures,
Crown and Root systemic balance

And forward
to future regenerators
of multiculturally polypathic climate health.

No Women’s Wise BiCameral Council
would hope to leave such nutritious me-too Voices
of polyphony echoing silenced polyvagal history
for freedom from merely monotheistic enslavement,
freedom toward matriarchal
panentheistic
deeply compassionate un-munitional ecology

Crown Ego-Left with Root Eco-Right
mind with body Win/Win
polypathic ego/eco-consciousness

Of past through future
health and safety
liberating Spirit
conserving Nature
holonic depolarizing Balance

Resonating reiterative Now/Here
Time/Space micro-revolutions,
Non(0)-Soul bilateral voices

Yang DualDark Brothers,
born of CoBinary Yin
Gaia’s matriarchal Paradise
enriching Goddess worshipful wombs

Marching with all of this
our re-genetically shared Win/Win
caste-conservation

Both/And caste-liberating
cooperative Creolization (Dr. Jane Anna Gordon)

Transubstantiating
transliterating sociological communications (G Lakoff, Political Mind),
with Creolizing Political Theory
of W.E.B. Dubois, eco-political scientist,
adding marginal side-lined listening notes
and wonder speculations
of and for Win/Win
regenerating Wisdom Marching Councils:

“…[I]t is a mistake
to frame all [health and safety] problem-driven work
as necessarily answering and serviceable
to [LeftBrain caste-preserving] corporate imperatives.
After all, what of the work of Frantz Fanon
or W.E.B. Du Bois?”

“With Du Bois,
his framing of African Americans as a unique social scientific opportunity
to study the emergence of a [bought and sold] race
born of [caste-preserving, LeftBrain dominant] displacement,
coerced [creolizing] intermixing,
[co-afflicting] slavery [MasterWhiteMale/MistressBlackFeMale]
and then [caste] emancipation”

“led not only through his monumental thousand-page,
‘The Philadelphia Negro,’
to the development of the field of urban ethnography
(including the generation of previously nonexistent census data)
but to a uniquely New World form
of [caste-interdependent] sociology.”

“Ironically,
his efforts
to disclose and illuminate the workings
of modern [multicultural] racialization
enabled him to produce
a creolized study
of complex [eco-political crown/root cobinary] societies
that added to classical European [LeftBrain SWM Dominant] concerns of [caste-segregated] class,
secularization [anthropocentric monoculturalism],
[LeftBrain dominant] rationalization,
and [hierarchical caste-preserving] bureaucracy,
particularities of the [eco-political] plantation
and its complex [caste-interdependent] aftermath.”

“Unlike his contemporaries
who tried in making their sociology [LeftBrain deductive dominant] rigorous
to make it un-American
his writing continues to be available in print
and read in classrooms.” (Lakoff)

And available to be heard
shadow-marching resonant
yet silenced sidelines
of historic caste-abolishing
Women’s Wisdom Marching Councils.

Everything King
and Gandhi
and Du Bois
and Gordon
and Lakoff
and Czikszentmihalyi
learned through matriarchally cooperative ecopolitics
they absorbed first
through Wisdom waking walking Wombs,
resonantly resisting
dissonant LeftBrain talking
caste-defiant
monoculturing Tombs.

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Custody of the Eyes

Monks and nuns,
ascetics and miscellaneous humbled folks,
were taught custody of the eyes,
to show respect for those older
and/or wiser
and/or more supremely royal,
and/or in other positions of merited or inherited authority

To avoid appearing too curious
too available
too interested,
too assertive

To avoid peculiarly anthropocentric temptations
of sexual violence, and envy, and possibly gossip
(although I do wonder what crows crow about)

To avoid that part of our Anthropocene reality show
only meant for the real influential adults
in their exclusive clan rooms,
on private cult screens
and sold out monoculturing stages

Creeping across hedge and boundary and caste issues
of whom is worthy to be seen
and who is best with eyes cast down.

Black sons and brown daughters of enslavement
were taught custody of the eyes
and listening ears,
and curious nose,
and capable hands,
and impassioned mouths,
and preferably illiterate minds,
because what may be nutritious for Western White
Christian Right Entitlement folks
could become inappropriately dangerous power
for nonWhite dependent pagan nonfolks.

Custody of the senses, including the eyes,
a form of risk management

Precisely what healthy, curious polyamorous people
would never ever choose to do,
to enrich not only our own courageous multiculturing eyes,
but also to do our part to facilitate
therapeutic opening of our EarthTribe extended families’
ecologically deep-nurtured,
bicamerally intelligent eyes.

Custody of the eyes,
risk-management,
anger-management,
fear and terror management,
do not invite curiosities of caste-free compassion,
invitations,
attempted creolizations

Mutual gratitude for still emerging sacred-cooperative humanity,
natural/spiritual dignity,
integration of our potential
for more regenerative,
self/other acclimating,
EarthTribe’s SecularCrown/SacredRoot
polycultural health
polyvagal Win/Win integrity.

George Lakoff reminds us that
“Most people’s first [custodial] experience with governance
[of the eyes and all that neuro/eco-system that lies behind]
is in their family.”

Extending this family’s self-governing timeline,
back to embryonic beginnings,
Pre-LeftDominant language development
feels this is where our within-matriarchal belonging
and safe governance
experience first began,
then out, from there,
casting a LeftBrain dominant Ego Custodian,
bicamerally restructuring resonant v dissonant cobinary polarities,
but also stepping back through upcaste v downcaste time,

Now,
suddenly realizing this bicameral-nurturing Ego’s
freedom of eye
and anthropocentric mind
and ears for those who can yet hear
Gaia’s pronoia vocation
toward polycultural ecosystemic wealth
polyvagal neurosystemic health

Caste-held conserve v progress senses
never working with fully integrated consciousness
while confined to custody
of one monopolistic Ego Identity’s marginalized,
repressed,
suppressed
depressed
not truly impressed
custodial eyes.

“Your parents govern you: they tell you what to do,
what’s good for you and bad for you,
and what’s good for the family;”

and, if you are of great glad good health fortune,
how to deep nurturingly learn to love self/other compassion,
and why we take care of our health best together,
unblinded to WinUpper/WinLower caste regeneratively

Rather than RightWing systemic trauma,
leaning toward fearsome sociopathology,
expecting lesser paranoid beings to practice
custody of the eyes
and to respect upper-caste rights to enforce
condemning lower-caste violence
against less enlightened minds
and too-liberally empowered bodies.

“In a family,
the means of making sure they [custodial norms] are carried out
are, positively,
by expressing affection”

and co-empathic curiosity of mind,
seeing with new caste-abolishing eyes
about appositional differences,
polycultural integrity,
organic plurality,
branches of a symbiotic EarthTribe
extending back through wide open
wilderness time.

“and, negatively,
by withdrawing affection,
social isolation [such as custody of the eyes],
denying [caste-abolishing] desires,
instilling domesticating guilt or shame,
or physical force.”

“The [caste-preserving]Governing Institution…is the Family”
extended to include all of Gaia’s pantheistic tribes

“The Governing Individual…is a [BiCameral] Parent”
including too-often suppressed nurturing,
co-empathic,
co-redemptive pleasure sharers

“Those Governed…are Family Members”
responsible abd responsive
polypathically democratic
practicing custody of polyphonic senses
personal and political climate healing potential
regenerative caste-liberation,
rather than degenerative eyes cast-down preservation

No longer cowed and commodified and controlled
by custody of the monotheistic only way

Instead, wu-wei co-operating eyes,
free to look out and up
recreate our renewing neuro/eco-systemic
Gaia Win/Win Hypothesis Show.

Freedom from cast-down custody
is also bicameral freedom to customize,
to acclimate to our shared primal creolizing climate
of mutually cooperative health and environmental safety,
co-empathic trust

Wide-eyed wonder
with all neurosensory communicators,
living within democratically healthy communities.

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To Sexual CareGivers and Receivers

We all at least aspire to become adeptly fulfilled
care givers and care receivers,
as these two directions prefer becoming mutually symbiotic

To give care is neither spiritually better
nor naturally worse
than to receive,
as robustly healthy care giving is also resilient receiving–
these interactions mutually enriching each other;
growing healthy love,
evaporating unhealthy hate
and apathy.

The best care giving comes out of,
and returns toward,
love and nurturance,
not merely the exterior forms of discipline,
enduring negative emotions
and troubling thoughts of feeding tolerance
rather than intolerance

Love sublimes beat down apathy,
often with humor at our own mindfully deep learning expense

An investment in curiosity,
looking even deeper at this person’s compassionate
and dispassionate,
pleasing
and unpleasing relationships
in this time of potential healing

Learning to share Basic Compassionate Attendance
in organic life’s natural animistic spirit
of verbally vulnerable passions
and nonverbally transparent pleasures
transforming trauma-receiving communications
into therapy-giving communion.

Put another more neurosystemic way,
health care professional training has invested in
defensive attorneys
and insurance bottom-line profit-seeking,
risk-management corporations,
to articulate how to preserve one’s autonomous self,
one’s expert practice,
one’s authoritative relationships,
from inappropriate touch and language,
micro-aggressive behavior.

This is not a bad thing in our capital-hoarding economy,
threatening a scarcity of all lives matter

And yet, solely nursing win v lose monopoly games
is a less compelling choice
compared to organic life’s WinEgo/WinEco-opportunity
for both esteem giving to Other
and esteem receiving for Self

Which is all about how to therapeutically touch and feel
speak and listen
maturing compassion’s pleasing
therapeutic communication

Both strict caste-preservers
and liberated caste-abolishers can agree
our GoldenRule care giving/receiving win/win journey,
within organic EarthTribe’s associative v dissociative Anthropocene climate,
is how we further evolve together
toward optimizing healthy love communication

Compassion giving becomes pleasure receiving,
communicating with hands and feet
mouth and ears
investing sacredly cooperative
polyamorous trust.

As this conversion
away from monoculturing anthropocentrism occurs
and re-occurs
and holistically concurs,
then life-care becomes all about WinMe/WinWe optimizing
unconditionally warm
touch and feel responsive
responsible neurosensory communion.

When we have,
as an anthropocentric species,
too long-term triggering issues of inappropriate touch
and insignificant feelings,
these become historical artifacts
of a prior benighted polarization,
a former toxic age
and tragic stage
and disassociative life

Our Holy Nature/Spirit
non-LeftBrain dominant indigenous Elders
would not wish us to remain dispassionately
and unpleasantly stuck outside
life-caring Us
better together
than falling apart

Making great grandchildren
of all Earth’s organic species
yet again
this care-giving caste
care receiving re-caste
sacred communion day.

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