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Learning From Loss

The hardest losses
are those too late to repair
what has been win/win time lost
to despair

Just as love
cannot co-arise
where fear grows
fully uprisen
a prison
predicting anger’s nearby
impetuously apprised
surprise.

So too,
Freedom cannot thrive
where addiction has hard helped
us feel we are not softly worthy
to survive

“Loser” labelled struggles
with addiction
cannot feel free of affliction
nor can giving in
to addiction’s short-term affections,
powers to feel escape
from personal
and communal,
economic
and political,
monocultural
and monotheistic
OverPowers

Social judgment,
blame
and shame,
co-detachment
non-communication
developing hard
stiffly cold silent screaming
excommunication

Depressing loneliness
isolation
self-ostracization issues
win/lose closeted
fear-based shame defenses
against Old School GoldenRule
loss of co-invested love
offenses.

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Cooperative Desires

My dubiously protagonist Self
outgrows toward a co-invested
cooperative
co-governing center

A core UnWhite House communication center
Tao training for sacred positive
and trauma negation memories

Into ecologically
and economically
Right whole open
PanenTheistic Intelligence

Amping up
co-relational win/win choices
through unconditional regard
of panentheistic
inside/outside co-discernment
voiced choices

Ego secularized
by LeftHemisphere
health and safety cooperative
evolving old tired competitive
revolutionary predative theories

Not mentioning
survive together to thrive
communal co-empathic
win/win imaginations
empowering enlightened co-governance
animating histories

My intimately win/win highest and best
co-redemption narratives
feel like a sacred housed cooperative
trauma-free awareness
and copassionate intent
to live together EarthTribe curiously,
yet confidently,
win/win committed
sacredly together

On, but not overpowering,
my cusp of traumatic anxiety triggers
and co-therapeutic anticipated compassions
together deepending mutually co-invested
ownership and co-therapeutic
natural health and spiritual safety
intent

Calls my sacred housing cooperative images
merging projects for
and from
cooperative nondogmatic experiences
comforted by food and energy
nurturing resilience

Appreciating river-front environmental green
and clean
co-relational preservation
not at all bully mean

Historical-multicultural
Right-sacred/Left-secularizing
co-discernment spirit-mind/nature-body skills
of cooperative
co-governing communications

For green cooperative resilience
reproducing inside imaged
EarthPeace therapeutic homes
and panentheistic gardens
in/out-sided
wellness-rounded
competing mortal space
throughout immortal time
for EarthTribe’s Here/Now resonance.

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When Wrong Goes Right

When bad choices
speak in wrong voices
delivering shame,
deserving shunning
and irrepressible self-blame,

Reconsider this jump
from bad choices
to “wrong” voices
unable to consider tomorrow’s
potential more right rejoices.

No one of us humans
has divine omnipotent might
to make all the right omniscient choices
spoken belatedly by unchosen judgment voices

To be omnipresently good
and regeneratively healthy
and impenetrably safe
for ourselves
for our loved ones
for our species
for our plants
and living planet
at all times,
in all multicultural inside places,
and polyculturally robust
outside wealthy spaces.

On better days,
well fed and watered and rested,
we may try more benevolent curiosity
about why feeling good
and healthy
can seem so frustratingly short
and insignificantly small
compared to long time
and large resources

Invested by patriarchal god-fearing
straight white corporate capitalists
to entertainingly seduce
and identity reduce
you into isolating bad faith consumer
feelings

Erupting in egocentric
left-hemisphere dominant voices
that habitually collapse
bad
unhealthy absence
of potential right hemisphere co-relational rejoices
into inevitably wrong
unwealthy feminist choices

Speaking in wrong voices
delivering shame
deserving dark fame
swamped by irrepressible self blame.

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Fiddler’s Womb

If I were a poor woman
I would dance and sing
through basement boogy woogy bars
all these days and nights
of EarthTribe healthy men

Winning
not measured in applause
but absorbing painful bunions
in glad support
of Earth’s healthiest worn-out pause

Performing songs with peace
inviting massive choirs
composing mother muses,
matriarchs of deeply felt integrity
dancing EarthDay’s cause.

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Judging v Mediating

Judging v Mediating,
like Teaching v Mentoring,
like dogmatic Preaching v compassionately Communicating,

As felt
and appreciated by my LeftBrain dominant
RightWing hand
nurturing StraightWhite patriarchal
overpoweringly privileged
systemically elitist judgment

Branching, colonizing,
extending up and out in many capitalist predation,
LeftBrain patriarchally Yang dominant
competitive win/lose economic
and non-ecological co-relational memories
of investing in egocentric
anthropocentric
win/lose retributive
retaliatory
punishing
authoritative Answer-Seeking

Yet also rooting down and out
as a co-mediator
mentoring ecofeminist listening,
speaking as democratically acting,
empowering,
cooperative win/win enlightening,
with Left/Right informed bivameral preference
for discussing holistic
cooperatively trusting balance
with deep compassionate
context-listening democratic intelligence

To restore civil,
spiritual,
natural
Ego/Eco-Justice

Through multiculturally non-violent
regenerative win/win
democratically cooperative
communication systems
co-arising communion experience,

Health community memories
and cooperatively-held gratitude
to become competent community
extended family
mediators
entrusted with non-violent verbal communication skills
for positive experience win/win mentorships

Of
and for
our explicit historical
multiculturally evolving immigrating
quests to restore empowering justice
for all Living Healthy EarthSystems

By cooperatively learning
to ask more competent mediating questions
for healing absence of cooperatively-held judgment,
abstentions from international health systemic authority,
vacancy and entropy lacking interpersonal
and multi-regenerational co-investment

To empower Left
and enlighten Right
Integral
polycultural
Win/Win outcome design,
dialogue,
discussion,
discernment
for fully trusting
Democracy enlightened multicultural Practice

And not so much
self-perpetuating
win/lose retributive PrivilegeSystems
punishing criminalized non-elite,
too often poor and brown/black
and feminist/matriarchal
and GLBTQ,
apartheid individualized
de-contextualized
de-politicized
de-historicized
disinvested lives

Held in devolutionary prejudicial imbalance
by RightWing establishment adversarial judges
and power-mongering adult teachers
that our most sacred communication support systems
were never intended to become cooperatively
co-invested
civil and civic democracies
for empowering healthy ego-systems
and enlightening wealthy ecosystemic habitats
for multicultural mediation
and polypathically bicameral
democratically healthy mentorships
in deep listening
compassionate communication systems.

Heterosexual human spirit/natured presumption,
patriarchal privilege,
systemic white anthropocentric elite-WorldValue
eco-political bias
among win/lose arbitrators
of oppositionally-posed,
defiantly-positioned,
authoritative fear and anger governance of facts,

Traditional artifacts of monocultures
without prejudice
advocating win/win enlightened communications
as originally experienced
in psycho-neurological
regenerative ecotherapeutic health practice

InBetween EcoFeminist empowering sacred wombs
and EgoSupremacist endarkening
impassioned bilaterally dissonant
and co-passioned bicamerally resonant
communion-balancing
ego/eco-communication systems

Mediating
mentoring,
enlightening
empowering,
memory experienced
regeneratively win/win biased
left/right balancing
cognitive/emotive
yang/yintegral systems,
interdependent dynamic communication systems,

Bicameral,
bilateral,
binomial,
double-binary networks,
with integral
median win/win
multicultural dipolar co-arising
healthy green communion
ego/ecosystemic balance bias,

Extremely intimate
and deeply public
non-violently democratic,
cooperative health/wealth co-investment prejudice

For making Earth
and all Her healthy neurological/digestive
Life-Health Systems
integrally
democratically,
enlightening and cooperatively empowering
life-supportive multiculturing climates

And not darkened
and disempowering professional
patriarchal
punishing win/lose unjust
traditional capitalist monoculture predation
corporate machines,
mono-egotistic anti-theistic industries,
judgmental dogmatic teaching
fear and anger and hate DeathCultures

When we could preferentially choose
to become win/win restorativbe justice
and peaceful win/win compassion communicating mentors
and ego/eco-healthy mediators
again

Much less parentally
and patriarchally sure
that a health-wealthing extended WorldView family
of LifeSystems
is not a wealth-healthy
democratically interdependent
win/win cooperative
Compassion Communication System

Best suited for Win/Win nonjudgmental mediators
and DeepListening and Learning
mentors for healthier democratic
bicameral Cooperative Economic/Logical
LivingEarth Communication Trust
in MultiCultural CoInvestment Systems.

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Positive Directions

If you have some negative judgment
aimed directly at me, and only me,
I prefer,
in fact require,
expect,
demand you verbally
and directly confront me
with that distancing blame,
assaulting my ignorance
and failures of compassion,
too active dispassion,
furthering Earth’s emerging win/lose dissonance,
violence,
toxic climates
and egocentric narcissism;

Or, informed more fully by nonviolent communication

I am feeling sad,
disappointed in our relationship,
shut down,
angry
because I want our mutual compassion,
my vulnerability to you,
and yours to me,
our cooperatively-held trust,
to invite your directly communicated curiosity,
your hypothetical questions,
your transparency
honesty
integrity
when you observe some message from me
that feels like it carries negative energy,
lack of compassion,
too assertive
past a tipping point of aggression,
a potential trigger for past win/lose stress,
traumatic experience,
miseries of unfortunate events,
dissociation,
cognitive/affective dissonance,
the momentary despair
of not being fully listened to
with compassionate appreciation,
as we each deserve
within this interdependent web
of win/win polypathic
polyphonic
polyculturing
ego/eco-political life.

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Sacred Discernment

Perhaps a way to turn
from failed
and often violent
retributive justice
to grab healthy hold
of restorative justice

Would ask,
What is this deep difference
between discerning judgment
and moralistic judgment?

To discern,
and not to condemn,
is mutually empowering
and not autonomously powering over another,
against all Others potentially suspicious,
falling short of my own godlike Mark,
Imprimatur,
Papal Seal of good personal housekeeping.

Moralistic judgment
is a win/lose game
always casting oneself
and one’s own
as protagonist,
self-righteous wise Prosecutor,
representing your State’s infinite not-listening Wisdom.

Discerning judgment
is a win/win game
of cooperative
co-invested compassion.

Discerning judgment
begins with listening for what we already share
in common point of view.

Moralistic judgment
seldom finds time
for such resonant celebration
in cooperatively-held sorrow
and joy,
personal defeat
and political triumph.

Active win/win discernment
bears more humbly in mind and heart and voice,
Do not tear apart
what we can’t put back together
again
and again
and again

As faithfully as healing sunrise
and therapeutic sunset;
As mysteriously
and curiously restoring moon rise
and resonant moon fall.

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Resonant Judgments

I would not judge someone
and then some dreadful thing
or some nasty place
or some too distant time.

Let me, instead,
invite judgment from
that one relationship in real spacetime,

Until we each and all resiliently find
what we need
and want
for healthy wealth co-acclimation

Open,
free of negative judgments against,
free to
and for cooperatively changing transubstantiation
known and felt
into warm seasoned creolicizanation
for solidarity
of resilient vulcanintegrationalization,
intra-
and inter-nations.

I would instead be judged in wealthy favor
by some singing simpler one,
healthier flavored for some wavey-swinging hyphenated thing,
abundantly resonant for some pleasantly compliant place,
rooted in solid resilience
for 4D mind-maps left multiculturing race
and emotive time’s
right mind
rhythm seasoned grace
pace of timeless space

Let us inside trade instead,
invite outside gratitude from,
that one perennially cooperative nutritional relationship
in real bilaterally timed Earth space,
timeless intrapersonal place,
humane-divinely transpiring
turning
twisting
twirling
teasing
untruncating grace.

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Restoring Supreme HealthJustice

My litmus test question
for supreme and more everyday justice makers
organic bakers
RealTime fakers:

Have you read research results
comparing retributive justice unhealthy outcomes
to those of good-faith restorative
cooperative
justice processes?
Repairing green reparations
rather than locking up long-held repressive sexist lies
and throwing away liberty’s dwindling healthy discernment key
ring of bilateral co-passionate consciousness.

Could you justify voting against abortions
for those you have raped and pillaged
and still wear the mask of restoring justice
for all broken minds and embodied hearts?

When restorative criminal justice
invites and complies with WinWin peace-filling standards,
how much greater the legal-moral constitutional system
inviting and complying with transparent WinWin democracy
standards of and for co-operating health
with wealth
rather than
ego-eco anti-therapeutic lack of mutual invitation

Leaving rapacious room for anthro-centric stages
of monoculturing punishment,
retribution,
revenge
less sacred
and more secular locking up wild ecofeminist creativity
passionate restoring nativity

For historical Win-Lose evolutionary naivety
supplanting cultural Win-Win SpaceTime relativity.

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